Buying a house!
11 March 2003, 11:29 AM

I've had good reason to have been absent from my blog for a few days. This weekend has been *CRAZY* because Jeff and I made an offer on a house!

We've been looking for about three months now. First we were just looking in the paper and getting a feel for what was available in the area and the kinds of prices that were common. We even stopped by some manufactured homes lots to check out that option. We figured out what we'd be able to afford, what range we were looking for and what we absolutely had to have, and what we could be flexible about.

Our must-have's:

  • Lots of room inside. While we could probably do in my 1000 square foot apartment for a short while, we really wanted a bit more space than that. We figured our minimum was 1600 square feet and maximum (there becomes a point when it'd be TOO big for us right now) would be 2500.

  • Lots of room outside. We generally were looking at between 2-5 acres. We didn't want to do the cramped new subdivision thing. You know the kind. You stand in your postage stamp back yard and sneeze in your neighbor's. If we did a subdivision we could probably do with just 1 or 1.5 acres, but the house would have to be great and the neighborhood very quiet and thick with trees.

  • At least three bedrooms, two full baths. Four would be better, but we wanted at least a guest bedroom and a craft/office room.

  • Big kitchen. No more teeny galley kitchen's for me. I want to spread out and have room to feed this growing culinary passion. I'd need space for all my dishes and pots and pans and stuff.

  • Quiet, quiet neighborhood. No more of this constant road noise and 3am party sounds, constant car alarms or just general drunken college party racket.

    By January we sat down with a realtor and gave him the details. He gave us a few leads. We drove to each of those addresses and checked out the houses in situ. We looked some more on www.realtor.com and occasionally would drive out to check something out. By February we had a really good handle on what areas we wanted to be in and about how much home we were going to find for our price range: $120-140K. (That's Texas prices, mind you! I did a brief search for a comparable home in one of the more expensive U.S. markets in southern California and came up with about $300-450K. I was floored. The amount we're paying would only get us a one bedroom, one bath 600 square foot condo!)

    Last week I finally felt we had a handful that were good enough to see in person. I called up my realtor, Perry Endsley and made a few appointments.

    I didn't think we'd actually *find* one that truly suited our needs, but these represented the best we thought we'd be able to find in our price range. Jeff and I were seriously talking about buying land and having a house *built* on it at this point.

    But we went looking anyway. On Friday we only saw two houses. The first house was AWFUL, so by comparison the second looked so much better. Actually it met our needs just fine but it was also $157K and we would have had to haggle that one down to be comfortable.

    When we got back to the office, Perry took a look to see what else was available in the neighborhoods we'd just pointed out to him. Sure enough, he found several that were what we were looking for and I picked one to go back out and see that same day.

    It was *perfect*!

    In fact, we fell in love with it at first sight. As we toured the place we liked it even more. It's 4 bedrooms, 2 full baths and a total of 2323 square feet (not including the detached garage and the little storage shed). The master bedroom is downstairs as are two other bedrooms and the utility room. It has a formal dining room, sizable kitchen and breakfast area. There's just the one living room (no den) which is kinda smallish because of the stairs to the second floor. It has a fireplace. It's two story (more like one and a half), with an open area (open to the living room below) and a very small bedroom. It has a deck out back and wood deck between the garage and house.

    It's on one acre with lots of taller oak trees. All the houses in the area have about one acre so it's kinda spread out and quiet. There's a enclosed dog run in the back yard but no fence otherwise, but a gorgeous tree-filled view.

    We fell in love with this right away, but we decided to see everything on Saturday before we made any hasty decisions. For a second opinion we asked Jeff's folks to come down and take a look at that house with us on Saturday after our other appointments.

    Saturday's line-up included a couple of nifty historical homes. Unfortunately one was in need of WAY too much repair and didn't quite meet our needs. Two others were simply in bad neighborhoods. We rounded those out with a look at a brand new home in a brand new subdivision (bland, no space outside, no trees, nothing extra for the money) and one in an established neighborhood. Only the last one came close to what we were looking for and it didn't have half the charm one we liked. It was also on MUCH less land and was more expensive.

    So we trotted on out to the one we liked, this time with Jeff's parents in tow. His mom fell in love with it right away, and his dad looked at it all and pronounced it a great buy.

    With second opinions like that we decided we were through looking. We'd found one that met our needs, was within our means, and that had charm and potential. We'd make an offer now, close in the middle of April, do any fix-ups, painting and flooring we wanted, get married and have plenty of time to move in right after my classes were over. We couldn't have asked for a better setup.

    So we made an offer. They countered, we made another, and if all goes well today it's final! We'll need to do inspections, etc. and closing will be in the 18th of April.

    This is exciting, and kinda scary too - in a good way. I can't wait.

    World Music Recommendations
    11 March 2003, 9:00 AM

    There was recently a discussion about world music on the ANTHO-L discussion list that I'm on. One person asked for some recommendations, "what styles or musicians really interest them, and why?"

    Nobody else answered with that information (they got into a debate over something else). I always go to the "world music" section first in any music store, and half my music collection falls under the heading of "world music", so I felt qualified to give some recommendations. I posted a lengthy response. So far I've only had one person respond about it, and that wasn't even the person who asked in the first place.

    *sigh*

    So I've decided to mention the list here where it might actually get appreciated. Enjoy!

    Note: I'm a little heavy on the "fusion" style of "western+traditional" sounds. It's what I liked the best.

    Anything by Ofra Haza. She's an Israeli originally from Yemen. The sound is sometimes very traditional - she sings a very haunting kaddish on one album. Other times it's pop or "dance mix". I strongly recommend the albums, "Kirya", "Fifty Gate of Wisdom" and "Shaday" or her newest one, "My Soul".

    Yosefa, "Yosefa": Yemeni and Moroccan sounds

    Najma, "Qareeb": Najma puts traditional ghazals (love and longing poetry written in Urdu) to music, sometimes with traditional sounds (sitar, sarod, etc.) and sometimes with a saxophone and contemporary sound.

    Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, "Night Song" or his "Greatest Hits": These two albums are kinda different, and the Greatest Hits will give you the sound most Pakistanis are familiar with. I still love "Night Song" though. The first song of the album is breath taking. Khan was THE master of the Qawwal - a sort of religious devotional singing in Urdu. He died just a few years ago unfortunately.

    Rachid Taha, "Made in Medina": How to describe? Um, Arab rai-rock? Rachid is from Algeria and here is a sound that is sort of Maghreb and European hard rock. Very powerful sounds.

    Amina, "Yalil, Wa Di Ye": North African rhythms and modern dance-mix. She sings in Arabic and French with Senegalese touches.

    Ladysmith Black Mambazo, "Let's Develop in Peace": South African a cappella, a form called isicathamiya or mbube. The tradition can make many of the songs sound similar, but it's a wonderful sound. I love the song, "Everything is so Stupid" (from a child's perspective).

    If you want to take a tour up north, there's a number from Scandinavia that I like:

    Varttina, "Selenko" and "Oi Dai", but they have a number of albums out and your mileage may vary. I prefer this sound - they changed slightly with more recent albums. This is FinnoUgric folk music using traditional instruments but modernizing the sound just a bit. All female voices. One interesting side note: My mother is from Finland, and when she first heard this group it felt a bit "odd" to her because all of these old songs she'd only ever heard sung by elderly women. While she was growing up it was really only the old women who knew these songs, even though they were originally meant to be sung by very young women. (Many are all about courting, flirting, sex, new marriage etc.) Varttina revived many of these songs.

    Gjallarhorn, "Sjofn": An unusual mix of Nordic folk and Australian didgeridoo. :-) The singers are Finns from the Swedish-speaking west coast area. The opener, "Suvetar" is my absolute favorite. Much of the rest of the music has a Swedish character or is sung in Swedish and most of it is the folk tunes of the Swedish-speaking Finns. There's a lot of Nordic mythology in their music.

    The Kalevala Heritage, "Archive Recordings of Ancient Finnish Songs" Okay, this one is TOTALLY different from the others here. But if you're at all interested in Finnish culture and folklore this is worth a listen. These are original recordings of people singing the Kalevala. There's a few that date back to the late 19th century, so the sound quality varies. (Some were recorded on wax cylinders.) No instruments. Just the voices, as authentic as possible.

    Changing direction again...

    Hinewehi Mohi, "Oceania": Maori music with a modern sound from New Zealander Hinewehi Mohi together with Brit Jaz Coleman and Hirini Melbourne a composer and professor of Maori studies. There are traditional instruments as well as western. very celebratory. If you like them, check out "Te Vaka" as well - another Oceanic group.

    Back to South Asia...

    Sheila Chandra, "Weaving My Ancestors' Voices": Chandra is a British-born Indian and she uses her own voice like an instrument, droning or chanting. Very edgy, she'll pair a sitar with an old Irish lament, or sing a staccato without instruments. This is an interesting look at how some artists experiment with traditional musical heritages.

    The Middle East, Africa, and Mediterranean again...

    Hisham, "Somewhere in a Dream": Instrumental Arabic new age. :-) Middle-eastern textures meet synthesizers.

    Shahin and Sepher, "One Thousand and One Nights": Instrumental duo based in the U.S. With keyboard and guitar their sound is sort of a blend of Moorish, Turkish and Spanish, with a dash of Peter Gabriel.

    "Arabic Groove": a good sampler for contemporary "world music" from this area.

    Djur Djura, "Voice of Silence": A Berber from Algeria, now living in France, Djura sings haunting songs about women's struggle in North African societies. Atmospheric fusion of traditional and western.

    Azam Ali, "Portals of Grace": Born in Iran, grew up in India. This is her solo album - usually she's pair with Greg Ellis. Greatly affected by the music of Hidegrad Von Bingen, she put together this album of traditional spiritual music from medieval Europe and with an Arabic sound. Fascinating.

    Nomad, "Nomad": Lots of Digeradoo, flute and pulsing sounds.

    "Crossing Cultures" - a Miramar sampler album. Music here ranges from Tajikistan and Uzbekistan to a fusion of Swedish and Indian (Mynta), South Korea and Boshkortostan. Mynta has their own album that I can recommend, "Hot Madras" Santoor, sitar and tabla with keyboards flute and saxophone. Jazz, fusion, Indian, it's a collaboration of artists from Europe and Indian.

    And if you're brave, try anything by "Ekova". they're usually in the world music section under "Hard to Classify", which should give you some idea. :-)

    Believe it or not, I have *more*, but I think that's enough for now. :-) And no, I'm not an ethnomusicologist, but I'd probably like that area of study.

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